hopefully the decoy coins amount to enough cash that they don't become wise to what you're doing. you certainly don't want to be cheap there. it needs to be enough so that they actually believe you don't have a secondary stash somewhere that is bigger. because if they believe that then you got a whole other problem, convincing them that your net worth is that small. oh and here's a free tip: don't have any 2 ways transactions between your decoy and main wallet since when the robbers get home and see that your decoy coins are related to a bigger wallet, they might possibly pay you another visit.
Correct on all counts. I actually said just this in another thread just a few days ago:
https://asktom.cf/index.php?topic=5437245.msg61679886#msg61679886. You decoy wallets need to plausibly be your entire stash, and there must be no links (physical, electronic, or blockchain) between your decoy wallets and your main hidden stash.
otoh, if they see that there was only a single deposit or two made to this wallet you gave them with no other activity they might begin to suspect you did it for that purpose...
I'm not sure about that. I have a handful of wallets purposefully for long term cold storage that simply have one or two deposits in to them, sometimes years ago, and no further activity since then. That's exactly what a main cold storage would look like. It's not going to be a wallet I'm spending from on a regular basis.