Being nice always bring disrespect.

[gibrab16]

Seen this a lot here. Newbies try to be extra nice and end up getting talked over or even trolled. Once you show you know your stuff and set boundaries, respect comes naturally. Niceness alone doesn’t earn merit.

[NewRevelation]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Being nice is not the root cause of disrespect. It is the result of a bad character. People might want to take advantage of your good nature but it doesn't mean that everyone will take advantage of your meekness or uprightness.

I have assisted people who didn't appreciate my help and even started accusing me of wrongdoing. You don't expect everyone to behave the same way, so I overlooked them, and it will not stop me from being nice. Deciding to treat people badly because of how you were repaid for your good deeds will make the world a terrible place to live in.

Sure. Some people are just bad in and out. They have dead conscience that they can't think right and feel bad when they have wronged people. I would love to add that lets leave at, you don't do nice things or do good for people because you are obliged to do it, yea. Let's say you do right or is nice because it is good and right to be nice, yea. So at this point, you are doing it because it's the right thing to do, bit because if you don't do it, you will be punished, no way. So this will help you overlook people when they mess up and do you wrongly.

[POPOLUV]

We should remember that as faces defer that is how characters defer too, because many might choose to opposing this topic and while some will contribute as normal in the sense people leaving around my society are not disrespectful of being nice, but be honest with myself with my experience right now is that, being nice too much in this current generation will result allot of things that might end your life not only disrespect that will happen, so in any activities one might find his/her they should always be cautious and apply safety too.because people are not to be trusted.

[dyrandal]

We should remember that as faces defer that is how characters defer too, because many might choose to opposing this topic and while some will contribute as normal in the sense people leaving around my society are not disrespectful of being nice, but be honest with myself with my experience right now is that, being nice too much in this current generation will result allot of things that might end your life not only disrespect that will happen, so in any activities one might find his/her they should always be cautious and apply safety too.because people are not to be trusted.

I like this statement, but i do think that people should be trusted somewhat, mainly because there are many people who share their opinion nicely without getting reprimanded and even get praised. And with my experience being part of this generation, I do also believe that there are much more people who are easily offended even if the intention was right, sadly. But even with this issue, there are also much more people with a sense of inquiry to actually look into a problem and view both sides. So I think we should still be nice even if it brings us disrespect because doing bad things will likely get us killed faster.

[pliego]

We should remember that as faces defer that is how characters defer too, because many might choose to opposing this topic and while some will contribute as normal in the sense people leaving around my society are not disrespectful of being nice, but be honest with myself with my experience right now is that, being nice too much in this current generation will result allot of things that might end your life not only disrespect that will happen, so in any activities one might find his/her they should always be cautious and apply safety too.because people are not to be trusted.

honestly being too nice is just bait for scammers and fakes

[devlin85]

I think the problem is not being nice but lacking boundaries, i have seen many cases where kindness is mistaken for permission, once you say no people react badly, being respectful is fine but you still need limits to protect yourself.

[Berry2d]

After thoroughly looking at things in our current generation, the more I push to find solution to all questions the more the space gets darker even to an extend people may be faced with no option than to take things the way they believe without considering the way are supposed to be, its clear been nice at times gives room for evil penetration but never enough reasons for quitting on our good works for  life  offers exactly what we give, note it most be with good heart not with a biased heart because any art of niceness without pure heart is as good as nothing most be done directly from our heart not because we think others are doing so

[Royal Cap]

We should remember that as faces defer that is how characters defer too, because many might choose to opposing this topic and while some will contribute as normal in the sense people leaving around my society are not disrespectful of being nice, but be honest with myself with my experience right now is that, being nice too much in this current generation will result allot of things that might end your life not only disrespect that will happen, so in any activities one might find his/her they should always be cautious and apply safety too.because people are not to be trusted.

To be honest the problem is not that we are good the problem is that we equate being good with stupidity. Being a good person does not mean making yourself an open book. It is possible to be good keeping your own boundaries and security in mind. In my opinion character is actually determined by circumstances. Not everyone is bad and not everyone is good either. Therefore it is more important to choose the people rather than to distrust the whole world, being good with eyes open is not a weakness but a strength.

[mvdheuvel1983]

I think the problem is not being nice but lacking boundaries, i have seen many cases where kindness is mistaken for permission, once you say no people react badly, being respectful is fine but you still need limits to protect yourself.

The problem is not the people who you are nice to in this case the problem is you because you choose not to say no when necessary just because you what to always please people, the moment people see the soft spot in you they will take advantage of it to make sure they turn you to their problem solver this is why you should never give them the chance of getting too comfortable to the point of always asking you for help, protect what you have by not helping everyone that comes to you that is the only way you can be respected and not be milked in the name of problem solving.

[goro_chief]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Personally, people will continue to be selfish wherever they live. I hate it when people think it's a good deed to film someone living on the street and give them food while filming them. I think it's hypocritical because I've been there when someone helps without cameras around, and instead of saying something positive, people ask, “Is he your uncle or something?” instead of thinking more openly about the situation.

[White pawn]

I agree being nice brings disrespect as consequence on most situations in this modern world. The dark side inside human beings is flourishing and becoming dominant these days, while the bright side is being suppressed.

But if you stop being a nice person, you are going to do exactly what the dark side wants you to do, so you will become one of those fools: just another asshole in this modern wicked world to cause pain to your fellow human beings.

People misunderstand politeness with weakness, and that is why they try abusing a polite individual. Just be proud of being a nice individual. Give others the benefit of the doubt. But as soon as you identify they are taking advantage of your politeness, impose limits, get away and maintain only essential necessary contact.

Relationships must be reciprocal, healthy and uplifting. If you see they are being abusive, toxic and harmful, stand for yourself and don't go further. Respect yourself in first place.

Niceness is about pleasing people, often wanting to be liked and accepted by everybody.Been nice without boundaries is what breeds disrespect.Besides,life doesn't reward those who self neglect themselves to keep others comfortable because some people take that as weakness,instead of goodness.People would disrespect you because you allow it and it continues.Being nice doesn't mean you should be a doormat,you can be soft at heart and solid in stance.

[Pauldesaints]

It's worthy to note that some evil friends will give you fake smile to pretend as friend while they have some evil intentions at heart,they will always monitor and looking for the slightest opportunity to strike.Th greatest enemies of aan is his closest friends,we have to be careful while showing some love to them because the society have more evil people today then good friends

[Doan9269]

Being nice does not brings disrespect, we are only expected to know between what we should do and not, because everything at the end comes back to us as positive impact or negative one depending on the way we handles it, people will always be people, some can be ingrates, while some will show pleasure ion whatsoever thing we do on them, because they know the value in them, but we should not be moved by all these.

[Wakate]

We should remember that as faces defer that is how characters defer too, because many might choose to opposing this topic and while some will contribute as normal in the sense people leaving around my society are not disrespectful of being nice, but be honest with myself with my experience right now is that, being nice too much in this current generation will result allot of things that might end your life not only disrespect that will happen, so in any activities one might find his/her they should always be cautious and apply safety too.because people are not to be trusted.

Being disrespected is not just about being nice, it is about being weak to repel any insult that could affect your mental health.
For the sake of being nice, there are some certain shits you don't have to take because people would always want to pull your legs and if you are not disciplined to repel insults and attacks from people around you, they will use your niceness for granted.

[Roseline492]

Being nice does not brings disrespect, we are only expected to know between what we should do and not, because everything at the end comes back to us as positive impact or negative one depending on the way we handles it, people will always be people, some can be ingrates, while some will show pleasure ion whatsoever thing we do on them, because they know the value in them, but we should not be moved by all these.

You are right, except the person you are being nice to does not see you as somebody he or she could like before they can disrespect you but if there is no dislikeness attached definitely they're are not going to disrespect someone who have been of a help to them because those are people who are one in a million because they're rare to see, it wouldn't be normal for me to disrespect anybody who have done nothing but kindness. Although I could guess from were disrespect usually come from when there was a serious kindness attached because some person only give there kindness when they have something they're expecting from there kindness.

[Marykeller]

Being nice doesn't really bring disrespect. What brings disrespect is when you let yourself down, mingle with people for far too long, and they know the inside and outside of you, what you are capable of.

Someone who doesn't know what you are made of, won't dare to disrespect you because you are being nice. They will only disrespect people who eat and drink with them.

I am nice by nature, but I won't give you the chance to disrespect me. When I notice such a character coming from you, I will withdraw myself from you, so that the disrespect won't continue

[Rockstarguy]

We should remember that as faces defer that is how characters defer too, because many might choose to opposing this topic and while some will contribute as normal in the sense people leaving around my society are not disrespectful of being nice, but be honest with myself with my experience right now is that, being nice too much in this current generation will result allot of things that might end your life not only disrespect that will happen, so in any activities one might find his/her they should always be cautious and apply safety too.because people are not to be trusted.

Be8mg nice have really cause many people pain but because of the experience of this, it shouldn't be reason not to be nice to people again. Being nice pays very well and the truth of the matter is that you cant even when you will get reward for being nice.  I have seen nice people and what being have made them to benefit and have also seen  people who lived terrible lifestyle snd what their lifestyle has made thrm achieve.  For me i think the best life to love is be nice and dp not let people to make your change because their is a good reward.

[mvdheuvel1983]

there is a thin line between being a nice guy and being a doormat, if you don't set boundaries early people will think they can walk all over you and still get a smile in return, you have to show some teeth occasionally just so they know the niceness is a choice and not a lack of options xd

That's simple thing to do if you don't want disrespect just know when someone is trying to cross your boundaries then call them to order in your best way. Being a nice guy doesn't make you not to be careful how you react to the things you see people do around you you hev to be observant and know when to draw the line when it's becoming too much and when you see that your being nice is making you lose value in the sight of the people you are helping. If you fail to draw the line you will pay by being disrespected.

[Mhizlove]

To be nice is not a bad thing but some people take your quiteness for granted and also misuse it. Because they see that your kind,they will end of using it as your weakness and that will end up in disrespect.

And because of this act so many has changed and there heart has been harden just to protect and respect themselves from disrespect or to be underrated.

Applying wisdom is very important, just be kind and know your limits on how you interract with people, set boundaries and lastly don't give anyone the chance to take advantage of your pure and kind heart.

[OgNasty]

A lot of people take kindness for weakness. Be kind anyway. When/if the time comes to show your kindness wasn’t weakness, make sure you are prepared for whatever is to come.