Being nice always bring disrespect.

[odunybiz]

Kindness is good but some limitation should exist. Some people are so daft in the society that they always take ones kindness for stupidity. How will you expect me to borrow money thrice for a project and you fail to pay back after the success of the project. Now you are coming the fourth time thinking I will borrow you. If I do, that isn't called being nice anymore, it's stupidity.

[Franctoshi]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

I don't think being nice is the main problem but being too nice to people, bible did say there's a limit to everything, so whatsoever ever you over do becomes a problem, even going further, being too available to someone that loves brings disvaluve which further brings disrespect. Therefore, the bottomline is that you should be nice to a limit, create boundaries and be as wise as serpent in dealing with people, this way, people would hardly disrespect you for your being good.

[Y3shot]

I know  people do take advantage to people who are nice but it doesn't mean people should stop been nice. It is good to be nice and it also have it own good advantage but it's just good  for nice people to also get their boundaries to avoid disrespect.  One thing about nice people they are so good that people see them as People that they can always fools.  Even if nice people are being used I don't think I'll advice anyone to stop being nice because ther is always result for being good, infact their is reward for every character that we exhibit as human.

[Accardo]

I know  people do take advantage to people who are nice but it doesn't mean people should stop been nice. It is good to be nice and it also have it own good advantage but it's just good  for nice people to also get their boundaries to avoid disrespect.  One thing about nice people they are so good that people see them as People that they can always fools.  Even if nice people are being used I don't think I'll advice anyone to stop being nice because ther is always result for being good, infact their is reward for every character that we exhibit as human.

Nobody goes wrong by being kind, similarly, it's improper to continue being kind to people who abuse good deed. It's not clear to anybody why only a few go back to appreciate those that were handy in times of challenge and distress. In as much as the number of ingrates are higher than the grateful ones, assisting other humans has no barrier. It promotes the helper's thinking and improves self worth.

[Hispo]

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Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

In general, I try to be nice and kind to people in my daily life and also in workplaces, so far I have not experienced anything extremely negative about people taking advantage of me. Because I am aware there are people who are out there in the streets and in the workplaces trying to take advantage of people with soft heart.
The trick is to know the difference from people who are actually in need and one can help from those who just want to get as much from us as possible and then disappear without trace.

Though, I have indeed seen people who are "too good for their own good" and end up losing time, effort, money and even personal relationships because of bad people.
So far, I people seem to respect me, because I set limits on my kindness and I know where my duties stand.

[jvanname]

In general, I try to be nice and kind to people in my daily life and also in workplaces, so far I have not experienced anything extremely negative about people taking advantage of me. Because I am aware there are people who are out there in the streets and in the workplaces trying to take advantage of people with soft heart.
The trick is to know the difference from people who are actually in need and one can help from those who just want to get as much from us as possible and then disappear without trace.

Though, I have indeed seen people who are "too good for their own good" and end up losing time, effort, money and even personal relationships because of bad people.
So far, I people seem to respect me, because I set limits on my kindness and I know where my duties stand.

You try to be nice? You are a fucking asshole! JUST FUCKING ADMIT IT!

Regards,

-Joseph Van Name Ph.D.

[boyptc]

Kindness is good but some limitation should exist. Some people are so daft in the society that they always take ones kindness for stupidity. How will you expect me to borrow money thrice for a project and you fail to pay back after the success of the project. Now you are coming the fourth time thinking I will borrow you. If I do, that isn't called being nice anymore, it's stupidity.

I reckon, that's stupidity if someone has been too kind in that case.

There is always a limitation in everything and even in kindness. That doesn't mean that we're no longer kind but we're limiting how people take advantage of our kindness.

We're teaching them how to feel what we feel when we're on their shoes. We understand each others situation but they also need to understand to how to pay respect to the people that have helped not just ones.

[letteredhub]

It's really good to be nice to people. Being nice has been a sort of character I deliberately exhibit everyday that I always want to making sure I do something nice to somebody especially for a stranger before the day wounds down.

While I intend to be nice I really don't expect others to be same because humans as I know as unpredictable with character. I just choose to be a nice guy wherever I find myself and I have loved with this mantra in Mathew 7:12 in the bible. As for people that tries to disrespect or abuse my act of niceness I practically tend to ignore and avoid such people so they don't pollute my person.

[Zanab247]

I know  people do take advantage to people who are nice but it doesn't mean people should stop been nice. It is good to be nice and it also have it own good advantage but it's just good  for nice people to also get their boundaries to avoid disrespect.  One thing about nice people they are so good that people see them as People that they can always fools.  Even if nice people are being used I don't think I'll advice anyone to stop being nice because ther is always result for being good, infact their is reward for every character that we exhibit as human.

Nobody goes wrong by being kind, similarly, it's improper to continue being kind to people who abuse good deed. It's not clear to anybody why only a few go back to appreciate those that were handy in times of challenge and distress. In as much as the number of ingrates are higher than the grateful ones, assisting other humans has no barrier. It promotes the helper's thinking and improves self worth.

There are some people you will give second chance to remain nice to them, they will abuse it wrongly by doing somethings that will make you feel they don't know what you are doing to being nice to them in any condition they find themselves in the society. Grateful people are very few these days, and if you look around the society you will discover that all grateful people are making it more than ungrateful people.

If you have the ability to remain nice to  good people or bad people and you know is changing people life in the society, you wouldn't mind the disrespect that will occur in the future.

[Apocollapse]

There are some people you will give second chance to remain nice to them, they will abuse it wrongly by doing somethings that will make you feel they don't know what you are doing to being nice to them in any condition they find themselves in the society. Grateful people are very few these days, and if you look around the society you will discover that all grateful people are making it more than ungrateful people.

If you have the ability to remain nice to  good people or bad people and you know is changing people life in the society, you wouldn't mind the disrespect that will occur in the future.

This will depend on the money.

If someone has done bad to you, which you will claim them "bad people", you have to remain nice to them because they might open opportunity for you to work job with higher salary.

But, if they're actually poor or poorer than you, there's no point to remain nice with them since there's no benefit you can gain for them.

Hence, money solves everything.

[Lida93]

Kindness is good but some limitation should exist. Some people are so daft in the society that they always take ones kindness for stupidity. How will you expect me to borrow money thrice for a project and you fail to pay back after the success of the project. Now you are coming the fourth time thinking I will borrow you. If I do, that isn't called being nice anymore, it's stupidity.

It is people that lacks the attitude of being kind that assumes other people's kindness as weakness or stupidity, but in my view they're rather in the ones in stupid pool. In as much as we set limits on how kind we're to be, we shouldn't allow the unkind nature of others deny us the joy we beat from exercising some kind gesture and we shouldn't also be selective to whom we should be kind to.

If we all tend to be unkind then society wouldn't be a good place to live in, and that's when we'll realize we have done a disservice not just to the world but to our self for becoming just like the unkind in a world that we have all it takes to be different.

[Gozie51]

Grateful people are very few these days, and if you look around the society you will discover that all grateful people are making it more than ungrateful people.

This is the irony of life. There are people that you know that are bad people because of their anticident of either kidnappers, evil conspirators and even armed robbers who are killing people but they just end in police net and after few days they are out committing same atrocities and the people keep losing their lives untimely. It is same with money making, some people go through alot in hussling for money yet they don't get it but certain people with little effort make money. So I think grace is also a better reason that certain things you expect for those bad people are not happening to them.

[Zoomic]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Be nice and expect nothing in return. The reason you feel offended by other people's reactions to your kindness is that you expect too much from them. Bad things will still happen whether you are nice or not.

Just keep in mind that the world needs more kindness, not a mean-spirited way of living. If more people were kind and considerate, the world would be a better place for all of us. So, change your mindset about life, don’t let others turn you into someone you are not. Be nice!

[Uhwuchukwu53]

Op your point of view is correct but one thing is paramount in life as it's always full of advantage and disadvantage, but I see been nice advantage to over weigh it disadvantages, a nice person to every society need ni prophet or Media house to advertise it's status, even if people dance to the tune of supporting evils and bad behavior it can't over weigh nice did of people who chose to be nice. In my opinion life is a choice so to been nice , it's Left for any individual to choose rightly because a good name is rather to be chosen rather than silver and gold, as nice did is like golden pen written in a place which mark can't be erased.

[Sjkah]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

A bad person always has to spend his time alone. Even if a good person wants to be with a bad person, there is a chance that he will also become bad.But it turned out that you told the thing even though I did not tell anyone else, then I will not believe you anymore and will not say anything.But if you ask me for the second time, I will not believe you as before.  Trust is something where I can go somewhere with loads of money to you if need be. But you have to leave the dignity of that trust behind.There are many cases of lying, especially in business and other professions.

[Muba20]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

You will definitely be praised for your good deeds. Your righteous behavior will help people understand what kind of person you are. There are many people in the world who work hard to keep themselves honest. They protest against injustice. They benefit others by sacrificing their own happiness and peace. A good person will definitely be praised. Maybe he is guilty of something today or has become the center of negative criticism by others, for this you should not despair. You must keep your behavior in good shape and I am sure that good people will definitely become good to a bad person at some point. If lies and injustice are praised in society, but in reality everyone supports good. Maybe sometimes even if you cannot say it in front, good people are praised behind the scenes. So never despair and if you focus on the good side, then that person will definitely be praised by everyone.

[Kelward]

Kindness is good but some limitation should exist. Some people are so daft in the society that they always take ones kindness for stupidity. How will you expect me to borrow money thrice for a project and you fail to pay back after the success of the project. Now you are coming the fourth time thinking I will borrow you. If I do, that isn't called being nice anymore, it's stupidity.

Being nice is good but there should be a limit to it if some wicked people are taking advantage of your niceness for weakness. But we shouldn't stop being nice and generous because of some sets of ungrateful people, be nice to everybody but individuals that tries to take advantage of your kindness to harm or make mokery of you should be avoided. We need to be nice and smart, try to discern people that wants to take advantage of your kindness and do away with them otherwise you'd regret it. If you continue to allow negative people to be around you they can either influence you to be like them or they will try to bring you down.

[Y3shot]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Be nice and expect nothing in return. The reason you feel offended by other people's reactions to your kindness is that you expect too much from them. Bad things will still happen whether you are nice or not.

Just keep in mind that the world needs more kindness, not a mean-spirited way of living. If more people were kind and considerate, the world would be a better place for all of us. So, change your mindset about life, don’t let others turn you into someone you are not. Be nice!

People just want to be treated the same and they forget that not everybody are the same, the world is made of good and bad people. People who are good it cost them so much for them to make some sacrifice and decision to some people,  some people don't appreciate when they treated nicely,  that is why food people will always think they are being used or taking for granted. But it take only understanding for one to know that you don't have to expect anything from people when you do good, with this understanding even if you are treated badly you won't feel bad because you are not expecting anything.

[jvanname]

Since being nice and decent does not bring disrespect, I know what will.  I know how to prevent human extinction, but I will do nothing because humans are all a bunch of good for nothing fucked up pieces of shit. If you want me to change my mind, don't give me any bullshit about how humans are good because you know how fucked up you are. TRY BEING A BETTER PERSON, BITCH!

On a second thought, no. You won't respect me. But you will all fucking die, so fuck you.

I act like this because you are all evil, so don't say I am being mean because I am treated you how you should expect to be treated. Fuck you.

People just want to be treated the same and they forget that not everybody are the same, the world is made of good and bad people. People who are good it cost them so much for them to make some sacrifice and decision to some people,  some people don't appreciate when they treated nicely,  that is why food people will always think they are being used or taking for granted. But it take only understanding for one to know that you don't have to expect anything from people when you do good, with this understanding even if you are treated badly you won't feel bad because you are not expecting anything.

If you think there are good people, you are fucking out of your mind. All people are bad. Humans deserve extinction.

Regards,

-Joseph Van Name Ph.D.

[Z390]

We’ve all encountered situations where we’ve helped those who don’t appreciate it. It’s an interesting world we live in. People often complain loudly that those who earn more aren’t doing enough, yet when we step in to help, they either criticize us behind our backs or confront us, insisting we didn’t do enough.
Like I know someone in the family who turned himself into a prodigal son, he kept coming back and we all still contribute money for him to help, this kept going on for a while until I personally withdraw first, words get to my hearing that he is spending lavishly in the next state to mine.
After I withdrew he started badmouthing me, later every other family members saw through him, and they all stopped as well, he is just an example of many others, even friends to friends, still I will keep helping those I can, or let me put it this way, i will help those who deserves it.