Being nice always bring disrespect.

[SmartCharpa]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Though there is nothing wrong with being nice to someone, not to be too nice since they will take it for granted. Many people do not care how they are treated them back, all they want is to be good to others and see them smile. Well, for one thing, I don't believe that this life favors those who are good to people, among the rich people, there are wicked people and those who cannot give their money to the people who are struggling.

However, being nice to others taught me that no matter how close we are, we should not be good to everyone. If you try to be nice to people, your life may end up with nothing. My experience with being nice to people was when I lent money to a close friend when his bank account had a problem, he promised to pay me back when his bank account started working, but after a month, I did not hear anything from him, to know if the account worked or even pay my money, since then I don't think I will ever borrow people my money again.

[Jostern]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Being nice is actually a good thing but everyone knows that its a cruel world, people who are good are often taken for granted in the society, for such reason so many good people have decided not to be good anymore and they have turned into evil people. The behavior of people around you are the discouragement someone can get from being good. The fact that being good have made people to loose there life in the process is so alarming,

I have had Experiencies from being good to people, There was a time I have to borrow a friend some money, he came and told me he needed some loans so he can venture into a business not knowing he wants to invest in some get rich quick scheme, after borrowing him the money he could not pay back the money. He lost the money and when it was time for him to pay the money it was a problem for him, and it resulted in problem between us.

Another story was an uncle came to me and asked, how he was suffering he cannot feed his family and the children are not going to school because he cannot pay his Children school fees, and he asked for empowerment and i decided to empower him with a car to use for boat, but he could not manage it and i have to retrieve it. Sometime I was told that good people does not live long.

[Juicyhome]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Nicest isn't weakness, at time we mistaken docile people as nice ones. People that can't stand for their right or address a situation when they're been disrespected. Nice people with consciousness are well honor in the society.

Being nice doesn't stop you from speaking up when you feel disrespected and when people notice u don't take nonsense they won't misbehave again or disrespect you, rather your calm and nice nature will attracts respect.

[Dunamisx]

That you're being nice does not mean that others should disrespect you, only if you also respected yourself by maintaining your boundary, being nice is an act of showing love to others, which i don't expect that they should turned the opposite in response to what you have given, we should also be more sensitive enough to know what is at stake at the cause of being nice to people, because some help can turned into wickedness upon us if we are not careful.

[Ishicryptic]

I quite disagree that being nice brings disrespect from people, foolish people will always pay evil for good done to them but that is not to categorize nice people as the ones that are always disrespected in the society. I have seen a lot of nice people that are given due respect anywhere people knows them, they are treated nicely because of their characters. I know that people who are nice to a fault are usually exploited because of their kindness but again it is only the foolish and ungrateful that tries to take advantage of other people's kindness. There many decent people who cannot take advantage of other people's meekness to disrespect them. There is need for nice people be to be smart so that they will know those that are unduly taking advantage of their kindness and avoid them by all means.

[ODG001]

I totally understand your point although I will have to disagree with you

I totally understand that sometimes when you’re consistently kind, some people might take advantage of it or mistake it for weakness. That doesn't make it an 'always' occurrence as you stated because there are a lot of persons today who are still kind and you dare not disrespect them in any way

I feel just being nice alone isn't a major cause of disrespect but the repeated act without boundary or the request of illegality or immorality (in some cases) in return.

[GiftedMAN]

That you're being nice does not mean that others should disrespect you, only if you also respected yourself by maintaining your boundary, being nice is an act of showing love to others, which i don't expect that they should turned the opposite in response to what you have given, we should also be more sensitive enough to know what is at stake at the cause of being nice to people, because some help can turned into wickedness upon us if we are not careful.

The op must have seen something from a different view before coming up with such thread but personally I don't think it is bad to be nice to others being nice is very good but if you notice that they are taking your generosity for stupidity at that point you ought to watch your steps and stop the help you are rendering unless you want to be disrespected in a bad way.
People can take advantage of you when they realize that you have a good heart if you are not careful your good may turn to evil and you will regret for helping them.

[kote777]

I think it's important to always understand what you're doing and why. I radiate kindness because I want to see the world that way. Even a small kindness can make a difference, you know.

But there are situations when kindness is simply inappropriate. For example, when people blatantly overstep personal boundaries.
At such moments, it is important to put kindness aside and show determination and toughness.
And if you are smarter, more cunning, and more cold-blooded, kindness can be an excellent weapon against those who are dishonest.

[Accardo]

I quite disagree that being nice brings disrespect from people, foolish people will always pay evil for good done to them but that is not to categorize nice people as the ones that are always disrespected in the society. I have seen a lot of nice people that are given due respect anywhere people knows them, they are treated nicely because of their characters. I know that people who are nice to a fault are usually exploited because of their kindness but again it is only the foolish and ungrateful that tries to take advantage of other people's kindness. There many decent people who cannot take advantage of other people's meekness to disrespect them. There is need for nice people be to be smart so that they will know those that are unduly taking advantage of their kindness and avoid them by all means.

Nice people are the most respected in every society. All their good deeds are told to neighbors and friends. Ingrates are known for finding faults or laying accusations. As you know, nobody is above mistake. Sometimes the nice person may be fed up of the ingratitudes shown to them by the ingrates, yet they can't run out of friends and help from those who value the kindness they share for their neighbors. Kindness rotates and pays off in different ways it helps set our mind free.

[Byebyebtc]

Being nice does not always bring disrespect, but being nice without boundaries is what brings about disrespect, No matter how nice you are you have to make boundaries, you don't have to accommodate every single behavior giving to you for the sake of being in nice person. That doesn't make you less nice it only makes you a nice disciplined individual.

[Nuel0717]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

I totally I agree with u on how being nice have made so many people loose their values and respect in the society, because nowadays people take a person being nice as being weak, and they will always try to take advantage of it.
I once tried being being too nice to a friend thinking I would build respect, but it only made them Start ignoring my boundaries, I would have spoken more about it cause it hurts me so much but it's personal.
I will say being nice is very good in the society,but it should be balanced with self respect, because when it's not balanced with self respect people tend to misuse it.

[GigaBit]

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Nowadays, there are more bad people than good and one of the reasons for this is that good people do not get their respect. They do not get the respect that a good person deserves for good deeds. Bad people do not give that respect, but they continue to oppress those good people. They oppress them in various ways. Since such a situation exists everywhere, people no longer to be good. Everyone should praise the good, give them due respect and support, only then will the bad people be inspired by the good and try to follow them. Today, only those who can be bad in society are praised, and those ordinary, honest people are always deceived.

[o48o]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.
Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Honestly, i don't have a clue what you are trying to say about law here, but people have taking an advantage of other people and animals since there was people around.

People were using my kindness when i was young, as i didn't doubt anyone's motives and helped them way more then i could even afford. I was gullible. Later on i learned to set my own boundaries and i don't think anyone is taking the advantage of me anymore (more then capitalism people are taking an advantage of each other in general)

Nowadays, there are more bad people than good and one of the reasons for this is that good people do not get their respect. They do not get the respect that a good person deserves for good deeds.
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This isn't based on anything but your feelings about it as even definitions of good and bad people are matter of debate.

People don't do good things just to be respected. It's byproduct of doing good things. They but they are hated as well, because of jealousy, ignorance, hate speech, disinformation, manipulative information bubbles and purely, because some people have different values to them.

But as people get respect for other things as well, that has nothing to do with good deeds, so it's not even something that's connected to goodness. You get respect from people who admire you for what ever reason. You might be just able to run fast and that's enough for it.

[Tmoonz]

It's in the soul of those disrespectful people. The nice people won't mind if they are being respected because they're nice. But they won't allow that to be tolerated and when they are being abused and disrespected. And this shouldn't be a reason for these respectful people to stop being nice to others just because they've seen others take advantage of them. There is nothing these bad people can do for them to be stopped being so nice to the other people. As I've said, it's within the soul of these people, if they don't want to change, they won't be.

Exactly the point, I have the same sentiment with you, a nice person don't have to stop being nice to other simply because of how others have treated him or her, over familiarity and being nice doesn't reciprocate most times with our involvement with others, we should be but always set boundaries to avoid being taken advantage of and vulnerable to letdown, the truth is we don't have to expect much from people as not to be disappointed when they don't reciprocate accordingly and that is my own standard, so what you can to have your fulfillment and satisfaction and forget about those who took you for granted.

[Findingnemo]

Being nice is subjective. I always try to be nice around the people even if they are complete strangers which doesn't mean I am okay with them disrespecting me in anyway, if they are doing it then there will be consequence,s whether it's verbal or physical.

Yes, people who lack respect may deserve the same kind of treatment.

[Achalugo BTC]

It's in the soul of those disrespectful people. The nice people won't mind if they are being respected because they're nice. But they won't allow that to be tolerated and when they are being abused and disrespected. And this shouldn't be a reason for these respectful people to stop being nice to others just because they've seen others take advantage of them. There is nothing these bad people can do for them to be stopped being so nice to the other people. As I've said, it's within the soul of these people, if they don't want to change, they won't be.

True talk, people shouldn’t be the reason why one should change from being nice to bad, because the result won’t be nice. Being who you are at all times despite being disrespected or rejected at times, it shouldn’t change their life except they are just pretending but if they are not pretending then it’s okay to continue being nice and offer help in a way you because it doesn’t pay to be a bad soul.

[YADAYADA]

Being nice to disrespectful people always brings disrespect.

[Man of peace]

You are right,some many nice people in our society today always get bad attitude in return, and that is nature of life,some nice people today are being considered foolish and likely to be stealing from, especially when they give out a contract work to someone else to do, that person will assume that being quite, well behaved, gentle going is now a foolishness that you don't know your Left or right, and they go about taking advantage of you, cheating on you, trying to claim your property out of jealousy,look down on you, just because you are nice person,but I want to let you know that you shouldn't stop being nice because you receive bad behavior from people because of your nice to them, rather you should keep being nice for you will always Excel and keep going higher than those who look down on you, being nice to people pays a lot which we don't actually know.. because the nature of life is that people can never be the same, and should not expect everyone to be nice,but the point here is that it seems like being nice is a sin, because of how nice people are being treated sometimes as if it a crime to be nice to one another..so I will like to conclude by letting you know that some People's way of life cannot easily be changed no matter how you try to be nice to them or treat them, and likewise the nice people too, not matter how much you have hurt,treated or try to take advantage of a nice person,he or she will remain nice and remain great as well,
So sometimes being nice to people bring disrespectful.

[Nonstop_H]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

That is why in everything your doing know ur limit, being a nice person is good but know ur limit so that it will not become detrimental to you as a person, let's take for instance, without being nice, the word help wouldn't have come into existence, that is to say , help metamophose from nice, what is important is being guided, don't loose guard. Be cautious. Don't fall prey for people because you are helping them, by so doing people will not see the opportunity for taking for granted in the cause of helping them .

[POPOLUV]

Actually this particular topic can be treated or discusse in s many ways depending on your points reasoning, because being nice always brings see finish which it can end up tuning to be disrespect, which depends on how such person do relate to people and in the other hands being nice to can never bring disrespect but it will help you in advertising your name in the society on how nice you are with people and many will be looking for ways to be closer to you and why some will be looking a way to bring you down because of your generosity, and there is something in life that we must know that, no matter how kind of nice you might be to the people that leaves around you, still you will still have people that will not like you, that is to say not every one will love you for your generosity to them.